Ever wonder if there is an easier way to deal with difficult people? Or people who just think differently than you?
There are plenty of times during the year when many of us feel obligated to interact with dysfunctional family members, or at the very least family members who push our buttons. Many of us are also in situations where our relationships at work, school, church and other organizations are toxic as well.
Here are my two favorite tips for handling tough and even toxic relationships, to help in making things work with ease and grace even in the toughest of situations.
This one doesn’t require anything more than an audio player and your intention. That is to play a subliminal recording of the Ho’oponopono statements in the background. The statements are: I love you, I’m sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You.
So, for the holidays, I’ve partnered with country musician Jules and create a version of his Magical Mp3, that has my version of Ho’oponopono as a silent subliminal track hidden, behind his Christmas Music. The subliminal statements on this beautiful Christmas Album are: I Love You, I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me, Thank You, I Forgive You, I Love You!
When you purchase a copy of the Magical MP3, all profits from the sale will go to Sparky’s Toy Drive and you’ll receive 2 gifts from me.
- The subliminal Ho’oponopono version of this beautiful Christmas music
- 3 Symbols including an ebook as follows: Love and Gratitude, Opening to Receive and Infinite Abundance and Prosperity
Get your Magical MP3 and the 2 bonus gifts by going here!
My other favorite thing to do, when I am going to be with someone that typically pushes my buttons, is to meditate about the time I’ll be spending with that person. I visualize the other person(s), and then using my chakra opening and balancing symbol and then I move to the love and trust symbol and then finally the heart chakra symbols. (Symbols at bottom of the page).
Once I have my heart chakra open fully, I begin to create waves of love energy emanating from my heart center, to fill the room that I am in. Then I fill the home I am in (whether a house or an apartment – fill your space first), then the entire building. Once the building is full of love, expand it out into the neighborhood. Then continue to expand this love energy, until you have reached the person(s) you are wanting to enjoy being with.
See the person(s) in the distance as the magnetic energy of the love you are sending out is drawing them closer and closer as you embrace them with all of the love you can possibly send their way. See yourself hugging them and looking into their eye as you tell them how much you love them.
Then see yourselves having a wonderful time together throughout the entire time together.
If the relationship is typically very trying for you, you may want to do this everyday from now until the day you will be getting together with that person(s).
Also, keep the 3 symbols in your pocket when you are with them, so that you can reconnect to the energy that you have created between you and them, if things appears to be heading toward the former pattern.
I also suggest that if you find things heading toward your former pattern, you can do what I refer to a pattern interrupt, by excusing yourself to the bathroom. While in the bathroom, you can set the tone by quickly going through the exercise above.
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