Visualizing  What You Want is Key to Moving Beyond a Dark Night of the Soul

As I mentioned at the beginning of this series of articles for Moving Beyond a Dark Night of the Soul, ( In case you missed the first article about “Moving Beyond a Dark Night of the Soul”, click here!) the first step was to Meditate and Journal, while the second step is to examine both your old beliefs and the new beliefs, the third step was to embrace and heal your emotions and feelings and the fourth step is to get clear on what it is you truly want as you move forward.  You can read the article on getting clear on what you want by clicking here!

Step five is to visualize what you want.

After coming through a Dark Night of the Soul and having worked through your beliefs, emotions and feelings as well as discovering what it is your want in your life, the final step is to visualize and trust that what you desire is already available to you and all you need to do is claim it. The key to this process is trusting that it is already done with the intention of “this or something greater for the highest good of all involved“. It is extremely important that you do everything with the intention of the highest good of all. It is also important that you do not do your intention by attempting to manipulate someone else.

When I was first learning about manifesting and didn’t understand the need for the intention of everything being for the highest good I manifested, via manipulation, the man I desired to be part of my life. The problem was, that once he was part of my life, I realized just how toxic and abusive he actually was. For me, it was a lesson in intending without focusing on a particular person or particular amount of money, job, etc. Instead focus your intention on the traits you want while holding the intention that you manifest whatever is best for the highest good of all.

You will want to be specific with regards to the attributes and traits, rather than focusing on a specific person or thing. When visualizing the desire for more money, focus instead on the what you will do with the money, you’re energy will be much higher than if you focus on large bank account balance or a stack of money.

Steps for Learning To Visualize

I am often told by people that they cannot visualize. The fact is we can all visualize even if we aren’t actually seeing an image. When I am drawing Krystagraphs I can clearly see an image. Yet when I am visualizing something I desire to manifest there are many times I do not see anything, and instead just pretend that I see it. The reality is that most every word we can think of conjures up an image or a feeling within us, whether we actually see the image or just sense it doesn’t matter, you will get the same results.

One of my favorite books on the subject of Visualization is Shakti Gwain’s book “Creative Visualization”.

It provides gentle guidance for learning to visualize all that you desire.

It has been my experience that the more you can bring in all of your senses during the visualization process, the easier it is to create the reality you desire.

One of my first experiences using visualization was for the purpose of learning to drive a manual transmission car. My husband at the time was going to be teaching me and I was very concerned that I would mess up and we would end up in a big fight. So, I asked everyone I knew to describe the steps for driving a car with a manual transmission, and then practice those steps in my mind using visualization techniques and allowing myself to feel and sense what each of the various steps would feel like.

When I finally got into the car to learn how to drive it, I did so well my husband was shocked and speechless.

I highly recommend that you try learning something simple with visualization to build your confidence. This can be anything that you have a desire to learn how to do.

Loving Supportive Relationships is the Key for Moving Beyond a Dark Night of the Soul

When Moving beyond a Dark Night of the soul, one of the main things that most people find difficult are their relationships. It seems that we have changed and that either we don’t understand or can no longer relate to the people who have been in our lives, or they don’t understand us. Either way, this is a critical junction in your transformation.

If you continue with the same relationships, it is likely that you will go back to the way things were and over time you will have forgotten the lessons you received from that event. It is also likely that your soul will recreate a new event in an attempt to wake you up to the life you came here to live. I have found, that the most critical piece for Moving Beyond a Dark Night of the Soul, is creating new relationships. In fact, I decided to create a whole new family and to work on healing my relationship with my birth family, while setting necessary boundaries and protection when interacting with them. It was the “Best Choice”, I ever made in my growth and although I love my birth family, I no longer allow them to control and manipulate me, as I had in the past.

Attracting Loving Supportive People into Your Life.

Using visualization, spend a few minutes at the beginning of each day seeing yourself meeting new people who are loving and supportive as well as like minded. See yourself laughing and enjoying being with both men and women that are supportive friends who love you totally and completely and who will always be there for you.

Simply sit quietly for 5-10 minutes and fill yourself with love energy, by breathing in a ball of Green Energy into the center of your chest where your heart chakra is. Fill your chest with love, once your chest is full, gradually expand the love energy around your body, then continue to expand the love energy out to fill the room you are in, the building you are in, your neighborhood, your city, your state, the office building you are going to work at, etc.

Then begin to visualize yourself connecting with people by sending them love energy and magnetizing them to you. See them being loving and supportive, without any requirements to receive anything in return.

During the day notice the various people you come into contact with and give gratitude for the loving support that you receive from them.

If you haven’t already, you can also go here to get a copy of my free audio program for Attracting More Loving Supportive Relationships. 

Once you start attracting more loving supportive relationships, you will discover that you never have to be concerned again, because you will always have someone who is not judging you to turn too. You will also discover that those same people may be a source for helping you to attract other things you desire in your life as well.

Another resource that you may also find helpful are these Free Mind Movies.